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Thomas Meli
Go From Depleted and Confused to Nourished and Clear
It’s time to reclaim your energy, reconnect with your sense of belonging, and make the impact you were born to make for those who need what only you can offer.
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From Losing Yourself to Alignment & Personal Power
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Clarify Your Core Needs, Values, and Gifts
Identify your vital needs and unique strengths. Let this clarity guide each choice toward a deeply aligned life.
Let Go of Relying on External Sources of Power and Validation
Realign your inner compass with your deeper truth. Gradually build true self-awareness instead of seeking outside approval.
Connect Boundaries to Your Core Values and Gifts
Clear inner boundaries direct what you’ll participate in. They align your energy with what is harmonized with your most important values.
Evolve Relationships So They Live in Your Harmony Zone
Live your clarity and naturally attract those who honor it easefully, fostering authentic connections and mutual well-being.
Live in Alignment & Share Your Core Gifts Generously
Design your life to offer your gifts where they’re embraced, nurturing a life of purpose and deep fulfillment.
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What Participants Are Saying About My Grounded Affirmations Course
"This was hands down one of the best courses I've ever done in the past 8 years that I've had a premium membership with Insight Timer. Thank you so much for your clear compassionate leadership on this little journey. So greatly appreciated. I wish you all the best as you advance further along down the path with this community and any other roads you choose to follow. Namaste 🪷"
Wila
"I am so grateful to have found this course. I appreciate the realistic perspective it offers on the internal conflict between idealism and realism. As a proud mother of four wonderful adult children, one of whom has profound autism, I've worked as a life coach supporting families navigating the challenges of managing expectations. Many families struggle between their hopes for their children and the advice of professionals, often overlooking the child's individuality. This conflict creates turmoil within families, and I've experienced this firsthand as a mother and advocate. My daughter's siblings share these feelings, but we're finding peace by focusing on what we can realistically achieve. While our ideal hopes remain, we're prioritizing mutual authentic support throughout this journey."
Mona
"Thank you, Thomas! I've avoided the practice of affirmations for many of the ways they can be problematic that you discussed. I walk the line between being practical/pragmatic, and being a dreamer and thinking big. I'd like to develop affirmations that add more supportive dialogue to my life, because those words were a scarce resource when I was young."
Mike
As of 2025, my courses are included with Insight Timer Plus membership ($9.99/month) or ~$5/month if you choose the annual plan.
Learn MoreMeet Tom: Boundaries & Empowerment Coach
In my most meaningful relationships, I often chose safety and ease over honesty, drifting into people-pleasing until I felt drained, resentful, and disconnected from my true self. Over time, I realized real empowerment comes from setting compassionate boundaries that protect our core gifts, values, and needs. Drawing on nature connection, communication training, and the current AI revolution. I empower people break free from misalignment, reclaim their intrinsic worth, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. When we honor our unique contributions and invite others to do the same, we transform self-sacrifice into genuine self-actualization.
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