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Upcoming Workshops

Join live workshops on compassion, purpose, and human connection. All sessions are interactive and include Q&A.

Sat Sep 20•12:30 pm
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Proactive Responsibility Without Blame: Activating Your Personal Power

This workshop explores how to activate proactive responsibility to create more of what you want in your life while acknowledging the real social, cultural, historical, biological, and external factors that influence us - without falling into either victim-blaming or learned helplessness. We'll explore how to connect with the aliveness of your desire and allow Aligned Will to have the "winning vote" among all the factors affecting your circumstances, learning to act from a place of empowerment rather than waiting for external conditions to change. Through understanding the dual nature of personal agency - that we have both genuine influences and a mysterious capacity for transformation - you'll develop a mental model that honors complexity while activating your power to create meaningful change.

118 attended
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Sat Aug 23•12:30 pm
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Compassion-Based Empowerment: Aligning Your Values, Needs & Gifts

Discover how to create authentic empowerment by aligning your deepest values, honoring your genuine needs, and activating your unique gifts through the lens of compassion and discernment. This workshop provides practical frameworks for making decisions that serve both your well-being and your contribution to others, ensuring that your compassionate actions flow from a place of personal alignment rather than depletion.

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Sat Aug 30•12:30 pm
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Cultivating Purpose and Vision in the Age of AI

While AI revolutionizes how we work and live, the fundamental needs and drives that make us human—connection, meaning-making, creativity, love, and growth—remain constant anchors in shifting seas. This workshop guides you in identifying and aligning with these timeless aspects of your humanity, helping you build a life of purpose grounded not in what you can "do better than AI," but in what you'll always choose to do because it fulfills your deepest human nature.

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Sat Sep 6•12:30 pm
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From Burnout to Breakthrough: The Neuroscience of Sustainable Compassion

Discover the neuroscience that reveals why "caring too much" isn't the problem—it's about which neural pathways we engage when we care. In this transformative workshop, you'll learn the critical distinction between sympathy (which activates your brain's pain networks and leads to emotional exhaustion) and true compassion (which engages your reward circuits and actually replenishes your capacity to help). Through evidence-based practices drawn from cutting-edge research, you'll develop the skill of maintaining a warm, confident caring presence without absorbing others' suffering—transforming your natural empathy from a source of depletion into a sustainable power that benefits both you and those you serve.

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Sat Sep 13•12:30 pm
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The Origin of Human Needs - Our Co-Evolutionary History: The Co-Evolutionary History of Breath

This workshop explores how our fundamental human needs—from sunlight and movement to play and social connection—are biological and psychological traces of our co-evolutionary history, marking what became essential to human flourishing over millennia. We'll examine how modern environments often disconnect us from the contexts where these needs were once more easily met, and develop strategies for consciously reintegrating these evolutionary imperatives into contemporary life, understanding that honoring our deep biological heritage isn't nostalgia but necessary wisdom for navigating the tension between our ancient needs and modern realities.

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Sat Sep 27•12:30 pm
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Nostalgia as Orientation Towards the Future: Transforming Memory's Pull into Forward Momentum

This workshop explores how nostalgia serves as a psychological regulatory system that reveals our deepest values and addresses unmet needs. We'll examine neuroscience showing how nostalgic experiences activate memory and reward centers while simultaneously engaging future-planning networks. This will help us understand that nostalgia's ache isn't (just) about missing what was, but recognizing qualities we still long to create. In this sense, nostalgia is actually an orientation towards the Future in disguise. Through practices distinguishing between paralyzing idealization and generative engagement with memory's wisdom, you'll learn to decode nostalgia's messages about what matters most now, transforming that bittersweet pull backward into a compass for meaningful forward action.

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Sat Oct 4•12:30 pm
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The Origin of Power and Autonomy - Life's Primordial Drive for Agency

This workshop explores how the need for power and autonomy—from cellular self-regulation and bacterial motility to territorial behavior and hierarchical organization—represents one of life's most ancient imperatives, emerging with the first self-replicating molecules that needed to maintain boundaries and direct their own processes billions of years ago. We'll examine how this fundamental drive for agency evolved through prokaryotes steering toward nutrients, early eukaryotes controlling internal environments, multicellular organisms developing nervous systems for coordinated action, and social species negotiating dominance hierarchies, revealing how modern expressions of power-seeking and autonomy are the latest iterations of life's eternal struggle against entropy and external control, understanding that our drive for self-determination isn't a psychological construct but a continuation of the same force that propelled the first cell to move with purpose through primordial waters.

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